We live in an area where there's few, if any, adult arcades remaining. When we first married, my wife asked me "what goes in there" and when I told her, she said "please take me." She loved it. What we learned was for her to wear shorts and easy off top, no bra or panties. And, the booths were too small for fucking (good fucking). That first night, I had to trade places with the guy in the next booth so that he could come into our booth and fuck her (she had to stand, bending over with her hands on the bench - obviously he took her from behind. Bring some extra tissues as you can't can't on any being in the booth. Finally, if you know it's going to be a busy night, get an inexpensive hotel room nearby. When your wife finds the guy she wants to be fucked by, just have him follow you to your room. The glory hole is a great way for a woman to evaluate cocks and hopefully find one attached to a suitable male.
Bucket lister for me is to fuck another mans wife either with or without his knowledge/permission. Preferably without so I can send her home full of my hot cum.